A Good Reputation

Stephen, the first Martyr, encapsulates many of the characteristics of a godly man. He is chosen for the simple task of distributing food to the Hellenist widows of the very young Church. He is chosen for a few important characteristics that all godly men should posses.

"Therefore, brothers, pick out from among you seven men of good repute, full of the Spirit and of wisdom, whom we will appoint to this duty." - Acts 6:3

"And what they said pleased the whole gathering, and they chose Stephen, a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit..." - Acts 6:5

A good reputation is earned and it is not given. It takes years of faithful service and exemplary character to earn something as valuable as this. Presumably, he would not be appointed to something that he himself was not willing to do, and therefore, we can assume that he wants to serve the widows. He wants to attend to the needs of the marginalized in society.

If you believe that you do not have a good reputation due to past mistakes, just know that Jesus can bring healing to your reputation. You might also be on the other side of the issue, you may have a good reputation amongst your community but only because you have hidden your mistakes very well.

The public's perspective of you is predicated on the little that they know of you. God on the other hand sees you for who you truly are. But, God's view of you is not predicated on your past self, your present self, or your future self. His view of you is predicated on the righteousness that Jesus has won for you through living a sinless life and obedience to the Father to the point of death. Consistent reliance on such a gracious God, and a pursuit of a holy life empowered by his Holy Spirit can help restore our reputation.

A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold. - Proverbs 22:1

Reflection Questions

1. If someone had to describe you in one word what would it be?

   • What do you perceive is your reputation in your community? Among your friends? Among your family?

   • Are there any mistakes in your life that has damaged your reputation?

   • If you have not asked God for forgiveness for this, pray and ask God for forgiveness.

2. If you can mend this reputation take a deliberate decision to do so.

3. If you cannot mend this, ask God for grace to accept it. View it as an opportunity for God to demonstrate his transformative power through your life.

4. At the end of your life what do you want your reputation to be? As a man, as a husband, as a father?